Let’s start at the beginning. Exactly one year ago, my husband and I celebrated our 40^th Anniversary in Aruba with a group of friends (6 couples who have all been married 35+ years).

I shared that experience in an article entitled “Adieu to the Taboo”. It centered on one beautiful Aruban evening under the twinkling stars during a dinner conversation among the six couples. It was an awakening of sorts, especially for the male portion of our group. We talked all about marriage, menopause, and libido, which all led to a very frank conversation about vaginas.